Sounds contradictory for sure. I don’t think anyone believes monogamy is a natural lifelong state for humans, ergo we wouldn’t have so many divorces.
But it’s what we’ve established as the way for society to function at it’s optimum.
Infidelity is the result of living in the artificial construct that is marriage.
It’s not so much the infidelity that is cruel in this instance, it’s the lies and gaslighting he’s been putting out there, to both of his romantic parties.
So yeah, his behaviour is shocking, and monogamy isn’t a natural human state meant for life.
So not such a funny thread after all
Western society is pretty adamant about promoting monogamy, relationships in which you are with, married to, or sexually involved with only one other person. But are humans meant to be monogamous? Hopes & Fears asked a biologist, psychologist, and…
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